Tips for New Readers

 
 

Teaching your child to read can feel like one of the biggest challenges you'll ever face as a homeschooling parent. But think about it: kids in the U.S. have been learning to read at home since colonial days. If pioneer families could teach their children to read by candlelight, you can do it too! It's not as hard as it looks.

Step One: Read to Your Kids

One of the most effective ways to introduce kids to reading is simply to sit and read to them. It's not unusual for kids who have been following along as you read their favorite books to start recognizing sight words on their own.

Step Two: Keep it Interesting

Make it enjoyable for all of you by finding material that interests you AND them. There are plenty of high quality picture books and early readers at your local library or book retailer.

But you don't have to stick to beginner's books. As reading advocate Jim Trelease has pointed out, young kids can understand much more advanced material than they would be able to read for themselves. At our house, my youngest was able to follow along with the Harry Potter series when he was only six.

Step Three: Help Them "Break the Code"

For kids, the key to reading on their own is being able to figure out how letters come together to form words. So exposing your kids to the alphabet and the sounds letters make is a necessary part of learning to read.

You can use a phonics curriculum or flashcards, but there are other choices as well. Young kids often learn through touch, so letter-shaped puzzle pieces and alphabet blocks are great starters. And I can thank Sesame Street for teaching my older child to read while I was busy with the new baby.

Of course, reading is about meaning and getting the message, not just getting the words right. So along with sounding out the letters, remind your child to keep checking back with the sentence and the story as a whole, to make sure that the word they are trying to figure out makes sense in context.

Special Note: Don't worry if your child isn't an early reader. While it may be nice for a child to learn to read at three or four, studies have found that there's no long-lasting advantage.

Resources to Help Kids Read

Use these resources to help kids develop the skills they need to start reading:

Word books: My kids and I loved paging through the Richard Scarry word books over and over. They are filled with Scarry's trademark animal characters, including Lowly Worm and Huckle Cat, doing all sorts of things, each of them labeled. You could spend hours going through the author's humorous scenes, finding something new each time.

Storybook apps: Animated storybooks highlight each word as you hear it read. They not only keep a young child's attention, they're also great for helping the brain make the connection between the written word and the sound.

Easy reader books: These classics are perfect for kids who want to practice their emerging reading skills. They come in different levels, some with just a few words per page, and others with full-fledged stories. My family's favorites included anything by Dr. Seuss, the Frog and Toad series by Arnold Lobel, the Amelia Bedelia series by Peggy Parish, and James Marshall's many books. There are also great easy-to-read books on nonfiction topics, like Robert Ballard's Finding the Titanic.

Reading Instruction Programs: Some people just like the structure of a "learn-to-read" program. You may be able to borrow or access them online through your library before you buy, to make sure your child likes it. Popular programs available in print include:


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Homeschool to College

If you're wondering what it's like to homeschool through the teen years, I've updated my Homeschool to College Guide, available as a PDF on my Teachers Pay Teachers page.

Available as a PDF from Teachers Pay Teachers

This guide is aimed at both parents and teens, with advice that can help you plan, go through the application process, and make the most of your time at college. Among the topics I cover are:

College Prep

  • No-Stress Homeschool Record Keeping

  • Should You Give Your Student Grades?

  • How to Avoid the "Mommy Grade" Stigma

  • How to Know When Your Teen Is Done Homeschooling

  • The Pros and Cons of Standardized Test Scores

  • Does Your Homeschool Grad Need a GED?

  • Homeschool Graduation (And Other Ways to Celebrate)

How to Write a Narrative Homeschool Transcript

  • Transcript Introduction -- The "Guidance Counselor Letter"

  • Your Personal Homeschooling Philosophy Statement

  • The Transcript Summary

  • Selected Course Details

  • Letters of Recommendation

Advice for Students Heading Off to College

  • Get Ready for College!

  • 6 Tips for College Success

The information is adapted from articles I wrote as the Homeschooling Expert at About.com (now ThoughtCo) and my experience homeschooling my now-grown kids from kindergarten through 12th grade. After graduating from the college programs of their choice, both my grown homeschoolers are currently working at good jobs in fields that combine creativity and technology.

I hope you find it helpful. Let me know if you have questions I haven't covered!

What to Do if You're Panicked About Curriculum

 
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Buy a cheap, complete curriculum workbook for your child’s grade. Boom, done.

If you have reporting requirements for a state like New York, you can use it as a placeholder on your IHIP for the school district. Just add a statement that says the materials you are list “include but are not limited to” and that you will be adding more details in the quarterly reports.

Then relax as you figure out what else you can do during the year that’s more engaging and meaty.

What can you do with a workbook?

  • Flip through it to find topics you might want to cover during the year.

  • Use it to see how to describe skills in “educationese.” For instance, learning to tell time falls under “math.”

  • Give it to your kids for “busy work” when you’re frazzled but want to feel productive. Some kids like worksheets! But if your kids find them stressful or boring, let them pick out the pages they want to do. And don’t make a big deal of grading them. Instead, use their work to see where you might need to help them improve their skills as you develop your own teaching plan.

You can find all-in-one curriculum workbooks in book stores, department and big box stores, and online. Here are a few examples. Some are specifically for homeschooling, and others are designed to reinforce classroom instruction (but can probably work for homeschooling) as well. If your child is middle school or older, look for workbooks or review books for specific subjects. Some examples:

 
 

Another Option: Outline a Plan of Instruction

To fulfill the New York State homeschooling regulations, you must show the school “a list of the syllabi, curriculum materials, textbooks or plan of instruction to be used in each of the required subjects.”

If buying a curriculum isn’t your style, create a plan of instruction based upon guides aimed at helping parents figure out what their kids should be learning when. Some list specific topics, such as:

Others offer suggestions for topics, as well as techniques to help you cover a wide range of topics, including:

Regardless of which strategy you choose, you’ll get past that planning logjam and begin to move on to working and learning about homeschooling along with your kids!


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How to Create Your Own Curriculum!

 
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Many homeschooling parents -- even those who start out using a pre-packaged curriculum -- decide somewhere along the way to take advantage of the freedom homeschooling allows by designing their own course of study.

If you don’t have an education degree, creating your own curriculum can sound daunting. But putting together a customized learning plan not only saves you money – it can also make your homeschooling experience much more meaningful.

Remember, unlike a classroom teacher, you won’t be teaching the same course year after year. (If you have multiple ages and adapt it for different levels, you may only have to teach it once!) So it makes sense to keep prep time on your part to a minimum. Try these tips to get going quickly and easily:

  • Follow your passions. Enthusiasm is contagious! Choose topics that interest your kids, and you’re already ahead. And the same goes for you: Teachers who love their topic can make anything sound fascinating!

  • Start small. Take it one subject, or even one topic, at a time. For example, design a unit study exploring one favorite interest – say, sharks -- from different angles (looking at its place in history, the science involved, and reading related literature, etc.).

  • Keep it broad. The more details you spell out, the harder it will be to cover everything. You’re also giving yourself less time to veer off when you discover some unexpected new piece of information that looks intriguing. Pick a few general areas you want to touch on, then do specific prep into the first one or two before starting to plan the rest.

Once you’ve decided what you want to cover, follow these steps to design a curriculum around it:

1. Do your research – but just enough to know what you want to learn. To create a teaching plan for a subject you're not familiar with, the first step is to get a good idea of what it's about.

My favorite way to get a quick overview of a new subject? Read a well-written book on the topic aimed at middle schoolers! Books for that age group will tell you everything you need to know to cover the topic for younger students, but still be comprehensive enough to get you started on a high school level.

Other resources you can use to introduce yourself to a topic include:

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  • Popular nonfiction for adults or teens;

  • Websites designed for student review (like Khan Academy or BBC Bitesize );

  • Review workbooks, like Kumon, or study guides such as SparkNotes for literature;

  • Self-help books for adults (such as the "For Dummies" or the “Don’t Know Much” history series);

  • Textbooks, particularly ones recommended by other homeschoolers.

2. Identify the topics and concepts you want your children to learn. As you do your research, make notes on key concepts and topics you may want to cover. Don't feel you have to include everything -- many educators feel that digging deep into a few core topics is more useful than skimming over many areas briefly.

That said, if you come up with more topics than you can possibly cover in one year, you'll have options if one area doesn't work for your family.

3. Create a timetable. Figure out how long you would like to spend on the subject -- a year, a semester, or a few weeks. And nothing says you can't continue on with a subject for more than a year!

Next, decide how much time you want to devote to each broad area. Within that time period, list all the topics you think your family would like to learn about. But again, don't worry about individual topics until you get there. That way, if you decide to drop a topic, you'll avoid doing extra work.

For instance, if you want to devote three months to World War II, don't just divide the time up chronologically, battle by battle. When you dive in, you may decide to approach the subject a different way, such as focusing on how it affected ordinary people in different countries.

4. Select high-quality resources. One big plus of homeschooling is that it lets you use choose the very best resources available. These may be textbooks, picture books, graphic novels, movies, videos, and even toys and games, as well as online resources and apps. Fiction and narrative nonfiction (true stories about inventions and discoveries, biographies, and so on) are also useful learning tools.

5. Add in hands-on activities. You don't have to put every project together from scratch -- there are lots of well-made science kits and arts and crafts kits, as well as activity books that give you step-by-step directions. And don't forget activities like cooking, making costumes, or building models.

6. Take it outside. If getting out into the community is an option where you live, help your kids put topics into context by taking field trips to places that relate to the subject you are studying, such as historical sites, nature trails, or museums.

7. Find ways your kids can demonstrate what they learned. Written tests are just one students can show they’ve paid attention. You can also suggest they put together a written presentation with charts and maps, write a song, shoot a video, design a board game, or draw a graphic novel.

Last Tip: Don't worry about gaps.

You can’t cover everything -- but that’s not your ultimate goal. The best skill you can help your kids develop is the ability to seek out information on their own.

If your kids want to know more about a subject once you’re done, suggest ways they can continue to research it on their own. This can range from borrowing library books, to finding YouTube videos, to contacting experts on the internet. (There are a lot of college professors and graduate students on Twitter who love to share their areas of interest).

That’s how you’ll help your children begin to take responsibility for their own education – and start them on the path to become life-long learners!


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5 Thoughts About Homeschooling (Pandemic Edition)

 
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If I had to boil down all the advice I have to share about what it’s like to homeschool during a pandemic to a few basic points, this is what I’d say:

1. If you want to homeschool, you can. I've seen people make homeschooling work under any kind of circumstance — single parents, two working parents, even parents with disabilities. At times like these, when families may be dealing with working from home or unemployment, housing upheavals, illness, and other stress, you may really appreciate the flexibility homeschooling can bring to “do school” when you want, the way you want.

2. Homeschooling can be as easy as you want it to be. Putting extra pressure on yourself or your kids doesn't produce better results. If you want your kids to get the most out of homeschooling, first try to relax. Have fun. Take breaks to decompress. And if what you're doing isn't working — try something different.

3. More isn't always better. At a time when every school is making it up as they go along, and every student is having an unusual year, “keeping up” with the school is an illusion. And you don't get extra points for teaching your child to read early, or trying to get through calculus in sixth grade. Let your children progress on their own schedule, and don't worry how other people's kids are doing.

4. There are no guarantees with homeschooling (or with any other kind of schooling). Every child is different. Every family is different. No one educational method works for everyone, in school or out. So take all advice (even mine) with a grain of salt. Whether or not you follow the school’s course of study, use a pre-packaged homeschool curriculum, or create your own, you will be OK. Most importantly, don't let anyone tell you you're doing it wrong, if what you’re doing is working for you and your family.

5. You always have options. You don’t have to homeschool from preschool to college, or even for the entire year. And if you go back and you don’t like it, you can always go home again. You don’t even have to stick with the same plan you started out with — many homeschoolers change methods and materials midstream. The choices you make now will not make or break your child's future. So stop worrying, take chances, and see what develops. You'll be glad you did.


Find more advice and support on my Homeschooling page!

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